Let's say you meet a girl.... you start chatting her up, flirting & bantering with her. You realize that things are just simply going better than ever. Then, you get that little click in your head, telling you to get her number. What do you do?
This is a big hurdle for a lot of guys. To them, it seems like a daunting task to ask a girl for this crucial bit of info. They worry that they'll get rejected, or that they might be imposing too much on her.
If you've ever been, or are currently in this situation, then this is blog post is for you!
I'm about to give you one of my personal, most effective, golden nuggets of all time.
"The most effective number close ever!"
When you see how easy this is, you're gonna kick yourself! You may start thinking about how many girls you let slip away, because you just couldn't bring yourself to ask for the digits.
This is an actual message exchange I had with a girl on one of the biggest dating sites on the internet. (Who I might add, is now my Fiancee)
*Side note- This same technique works in person, just as effectively as it does via email / chat / messaging etc.
So.... I'm going to skip the unnecessary 1st part of the conversation & get right to the meat.
So, pay attention to the concept here!
Because once again, you CAN adapt this perfectly into a face to face exchange!
Let's start this transcript partway through the interaction: (after a quick moment of small talk / chit-chat where I asked her what kind of mischief she planned on getting into)
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She said:
RE: Thank you!
I'm working, but was off all last week so no complaints. My Tuesdays are easy anyway, so it’s all good! Enjoy your day off...any plans?
My reply:
RE: Thank you!
My plans for today include: learning to speak Cantonese, building a time machine, and relaxing.
I realize I probably won't be able to accomplish all of those, so I'll probably just stick with the relaxing part.
hahaha!
She said:
Ha! Relaxing is a goal you can easily obtain so go for it! Have a good one!
My Reply:
Ohhhh, if it were only that easy!
I'm always running at full speed, so relaxation does its darnedest to elude me.
Although, sometimes it finds a way to catch up; but it stinks when you have to "WORK" at relaxing.... (I REALLY need to fix that..)
BTW- we've been chatting for a couple days now, & you don't seem like the traditional stalker type.
AND.... I see a bit of a witty, goofy, somewhat "sassy" side about you. You don't mention it in your profile, but your eyes TOTALLY give it away.
That said, I'm leaning towards being OK with exchanging digits with you.
But.... there's one burning question which must be answered first.....
She said:
What's that one burning question?
My Reply: (after waiting a little longer to respond this time)
Well Laura, that question would be: What's your number? :o)~ heehee!
And, just for fun; what was the first concert you ever attended?
She said:
The answer to that burning question is 615-xxx-xxxx
First concert was journey...what about yours?
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Bingo!!!! Ask & ye shall receive!!
It really is that easy!
Go back & read this a couple times, if you didn't catch the "important" part / actual technique being employed here.
It's extremely vital that you understand; not only what to say, but WHY to say it, HOW to say it, & why it works!!
*Hint:
Flirting.... bantering... bait.... hook.... reel...... catch/net.
;o)
So there ya go!
I can honestly say that this number close technique has been 100% effective for me.
& I'd be willing to bet that YOU will have virtually the same success. (Yes there is potential for an occasional dud.... but this has been fine-tuned & tested for maximum efficiency. And by following this simple guideline, you'll have more numbers than you actually need.)
Now, go apply this knowledge & make it work!
